"The red" the hero's name is in even, her first lover is Mrs DE rainer, a second lover is miss mathilde. Theory of status, the identity of the two harmonized appearances of people was significantly higher than him. So, one of my friends is so describe "the red" to me, this is a story of men against women climb.

　　I don't think Yu Lianyou love, at least until the end, is never seen, the existence of love is a kind of noble, some people say that love is to protect a person, with the standards, obviously, the two affairs cannot be counted as love. Rainer lady fell in love with in the original, but to even want from Mrs DE rainer, just a kind of identity, status to improve the satisfaction and to conquer a better than they are objects of desire, and this is a period of an affair, so even if reluctantly said, at last the moment he sank in madame DE rainer of love, but because of the wrong start, so finally it's hard to die well. Besides, he should because Mrs Think DE rainer damaged his and miss mathilde better future, just want to kill DE rainer, madam, it is conceivable that he just want to from beginning to end his own ambitions, not really into the love. For miss mathilde, he wanted to be with miss mathilde is completely was swept away by mathilde external initial originates from one kind of flesh, then mood, a kind of the more can't get more want to torture him. Mathilde had just put in even as a fantasy, mathilde hopes to repeat her worship of a romance, it is not love, at last she kissed in the death of the man's head, also be realize her wish.

　　I don't like the story of the red, only to see the truth in this story is that Mrs DE rainer for even the relationships we have, but because Mrs DE rainer's identity, have never been in love, so when she hadn't really learn to analysis, fell in love with to connect. Of course, have to say, if after you fall in love with is analyzed, can be rational to treat may, it is not pure love.

　　To even this ambition to insist, perhaps many also struggle at the grassroots level, we not rich "relationship", part of the worth learning. But his selfishness, the excess and lost "sincere" that, absolutely is that we should abandon the part. We should learn to use the right way to realize their dreams.

　　《紅與黑》的男主人公叫于連，她的第一個情人是德萊納夫人，第二個情人是馬蒂爾德小姐。論身份地位來說，兩任情人的身份都遠遠高于他。所以，我一個朋友是這樣對我描述《紅與黑》的，這就是一個男人靠著女人往上爬的故事。

　　我不認為于連有過愛情，至少直到結尾，也不曾見到過，愛情是一種高貴的存在，有人說，愛情是去守護一個人，用這個標準來說，顯然，那兩段情史都不能算作愛情。德萊納夫人愛上了于連原本的樣子，可是于連從德萊納夫人身上想得到的只是一種身份，地位提高的滿足感和征服一個比自己強的對象的征服欲，而且這是一段婚外情，所以哪怕勉強地說，最后那一刻他沉入了對德萊納夫人的愛情，但是因為錯誤的開始，所以最后很難善終。況且，他竟然因為認為德萊納夫人破壞了他和馬蒂爾德小姐美好的未來，就想要殺了德萊納夫人，可想而知，他從頭到尾只想著自己的野心，并沒有真正的投入到愛情中去。對于馬蒂爾德小姐，他之所以想和馬蒂爾德小姐在一起完全是被馬蒂爾德的外在迷住了，初始來源于一種肉欲，后來一種越是得不到越想要的心情，狠狠地折磨了他。馬蒂爾德只是把于連當作了一種幻想，馬蒂爾德希望重復她崇拜的一段浪漫史，那也不是愛情，最后她親吻了于連的死人頭，也算是實現了她的愿望吧。

　　我不喜歡紅與黑的故事，這個故事里唯一看到真情的就是，德萊納夫人對于連的那份感情，可是由于德萊納夫人的身份，還有從來沒有陷入過愛情中，所以在她還沒有真正的學會分析人的時候，就愛上了于連。當然，不得不說，如果分析了之后再愛上，能夠被那么理智的對待的也許就不是純真的愛情了。

　　于連這種對于野心的堅持，也許是不少還奮斗在基層，沒有有錢人家的“關系”的我們，值得學習的一部分。但是他這種過度的自私，還有失去了“真心”這一點，絕對是我們應該摒棄的部分。我們應該學會用正確的方式實現自己的夢想。