When she is mad at you-”I'm not mad at you"(I'm mad at you)"I'm fine"(I'm not fine)Anyone who's been in a relationship has probably heard these things a million times before. Perhaps the only thing more damning than "I'm mad at you" is "I'm not mad at you." Maybe you're in a relationship where all the communication is completely 100% transparent, but we're not betting on it.當你讓她抓狂的時候-"我不生氣“（我生氣著呢）”我好得很“（我不好）這些話談過戀愛的人估計都聽過無數次。比“你讓我抓狂”更讓人抓狂的莫過于“沒事，我好著呢”。或者這段戀愛關系中的交流看似100%顯而易見，但我們可不這么認為哦。

　　When she is not into you-Rejecting someone can be really awkward, and a lot of girls go out of their way to distance themselves without actually coming out and saying it. Chances are, she's not going to spell it out for you in bold, capital letters. She's going to keep dropping hints and really, really hope you get the message. Hopefully you've become wise to a lot of these subtle rejections, but if you hear them on a regular basis and still keep trying, maybe it's time to take a step back.當她不喜歡你的時候-拒絕別人有時候真的蠻尷尬的，很多女生會用自己的方式保持距離而非當面說出口。問題在于，她并不會把字母一個個拼出來放在你面前。而是不斷地留下暗示并且非常非常希望你能明白。希望你對這些善意的拒絕有了一定的了解，如果你已經接收到暗示仍不死心，我勸你還是撤吧。

　　When You're In The Friend Zone-If you've ever been knee-deep in the friend zone and tried to take things to the next level, you've probably heard some of these phrases before. What you failed to realize is that there is no next level from the friend zone. It's the final frontier of loneliness. You've been caring, supportive, and always there for her. Kind of like a mother. And you wonder why she doesn't want to sleep with you.當你是藍顏知己的身份時-如果你已經是女生的藍顏知己還想進一步往下發展，這幾句話大概都不陌生。你要明白除去朋友別無其他可能。這是孤獨交際的邊界線。也許你很困惑明明已經關心，支持甚至一直為她守候。像媽媽那樣。她為什么就是不愿意做你女朋友。