Recently, I have been reading a book named Communication Arts. In this book, the author Doctor Li introduces many methods to communicate with others successfully and tells readers why everyone should be a polite person. My favorite sentence in this book is “Everyone has potential, and everyone can determine your own future by developing positive psychological, mastering communication arts and showing your personality charm. In that way, you can have a wonderful life!”

　　During whole sections, this book tells us human should live in a large group, since people can’t solve all problems by their own. For that matter, human beings should learn a series of manners to deal with any situation which might happen wherever and whenever. After that, Doctor Li makes a point that people need to realize how to resolve disagreements between friends, families or colleagues. There always appears this kind of situation in social life, so it’s important to understand how to settle it. Finally he teaches us that communication techniques not only reflect in normal talk but also within body languages.

　　In each part of the book, the author takes a large number of examples in daily life to confirm his points. These examples in daily life are easy to understand and accept.

　　After reading the book, I find many shortages of my communication skills. I used to lack of patience when I talk to others, even got mad at them. This was impolite and might destroy relationships between my friends and me. Therefore I would try my best to improve myself and be welcome.

　　最近，我一直在讀一本叫做溝通藝術(shù)的書。在這本書中，作者李博士介紹很多與他人成功交流的方法并告訴讀者為什么每個人都應該做有禮貌的人。在這本書中我最喜歡的一句話是“每個人都是有潛能的，通過培養(yǎng)積極的心理，掌握交流藝術(shù)，展示自己的個人魅力每個人都可以決定自己的未來。這樣，你就可以有擁有美好的生活！

　　在整個章節(jié)中，這本書告訴我們因為人們不能自己解決所有的問題，所以他們是需要群居的。對于這個問題，人類應該學會不管在何時何地處理任何情況的方式。一系列的方式去應對任何可能發(fā)生的情況，無論何時何地。在這之后，李博士指出，人們需要知道如何解決朋友、家人和同事之間的分歧。總會出現(xiàn)這種情況，在社會生活中總會出現(xiàn)這樣的情況，所以了解如何解決它是重要的是要。最后他告訴我們，交流技術(shù)不僅反映在正常的交談中反映，而且也在身體語言中體現(xiàn)了。

　　這本書的每一部分，作者都采用了日常生活中的大量實例來證實了他的觀點。這些例子在日常生活中是很容易理解和接受的。

　　看了這本書之后，我發(fā)現(xiàn)了我的溝通技巧中很多不足的地方。在我和別人說話的時候，我常常缺乏耐心，甚至很惱火。這是不禮貌的，可還能會破壞我朋友和我之間的關(guān)系。因此我將盡我最大的努力來提高自己，使自己受歡迎。