邁克爾總是樂呵呵的，你總能聽到他說些積極上進(jìn)的話。他似乎生來就積極進(jìn)取。他這樣告訴他的員工：“每天早晨醒來，我對自己說，邁克爾，今天你有兩種選擇，選擇心情愉快，選擇心情惡劣，我選擇心情愉快；有不愉快的事情發(fā)生，選擇成為一個犧牲品，或是選擇從中吸取教訓(xùn)，我選擇吸取教訓(xùn)。”

　　邁克爾從60英尺的大樓上摔下，卻活了下來，當(dāng)有人問及他當(dāng)時的想法，他是這樣回答的：“我告訴我的手術(shù)醫(yī)生，‘我選擇活著，我愿意做任何手術(shù)。’”

　　選擇接受生活的積極面也許是人生中最為明智的選擇，其實(shí)，每個人都有機(jī)會充實(shí)、健康的活著，關(guān)鍵取決于你的人生態(tài)度。

　　Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate。 He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say。 When someone would ask him how he was doing， he would reply， "If I were any better， I’d be twins!” He was a natural motivator。

　　邁克爾是那種你真想恨一恨的家伙，他總是樂呵呵的，總是說些積極上進(jìn)的話。如果有人問他近況如何，他會這樣回答：“如果我還能再好，我就成雙胞胎了！”他生來就會讓人積極進(jìn)取。

　　If an employee was having a bad day， Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation。 Seeing this style really made me curious， so one day I went up to Michael and asked him， "I don＇ t get it。 You can＇ t be positive all the time。 How do you do it?"

　　如果哪位雇員有天過得很糟糕，邁克爾會告訴他如何看待問題的積極一面。他的這種方式著實(shí)讓我好奇，所以有一天我找到邁克爾問：“我真弄不明白。你怎么能總是那樣積極樂觀？你是如何做到這一點(diǎn)的？”

　　Michael replied， each morning I wake up and say to myself ＇Mike， you have two choices today。 You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood。＇ I choose to be in a good mood。 Each time something bad happens， I can choose to be a victim or choose to learn from it。 I choose to learn from it。 Every time someone comes to me complaining I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life。 I choose the positive side of life。"

　　邁克爾回答說，“每天早晨醒來時我對自己說，‘邁克，今天你有兩種選擇。你可以選擇心情愉快，你也可以選擇心情惡劣。’我選擇心情愉快。每次什么不愉快的事情發(fā)生時，我可以選擇成為一個犧牲品，也可以選擇從中吸取教訓(xùn)。我選擇從中吸取教訓(xùn)。每次有什么人找我來抱怨，我可以選擇接受他們的抱怨，也可以選擇向他指出生活的積極面。我選擇指出生活的積極面。”

　　"Yeah， right。 It isn＇t that easy。" I protested。

　　“是的，不錯。可并不那么容易呀。”我表示異議。

　　"Yes it is， " Michael said。 "Life is all about choices。 When you cut away all the junk， every situation is a choice。 You choose how you react to situations。 You choose how people will affect your mood。 You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood。 The bottom line is: It＇s your choice how you live life。 " I reflected on what Michael said。

　　“其實(shí)很容易，”邁克爾說。“生活就是選擇。從每一事物剔除一切枝節(jié)后剩下的都是一種選擇。你選擇如何應(yīng)付生活中的種種情形。你選擇他人會怎樣影響你的情緒。你選擇是心情愉快還是心情惡劣。說到底：如何生活是你自己的選擇。”我琢磨著邁克爾的這席話。

　　Soon thereafter， I left the big enterprise that I had worked in for years to start my own business。 We lost touch， but I often though about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it。 Several years later， I heard Michael was involved in a serious accident， falling off 60 feet from a communications tower。

　　那以后不久，我離開了工作數(shù)年的大企業(yè)去創(chuàng)建自己的公司。我們失去了聯(lián)系，但當(dāng)我對生活做出一種選擇而非對它做出反應(yīng)時，我時常想起邁克爾。幾年之后，我聽說邁克爾遭遇一場惡性事故，從一座通訊大樓的60英尺高處掉了下來。

　　After l8 hours of surgery， and weeks of intensive care， Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back。 I saw Michael about six months after the accident。 When I asked him how he was， he replied， "If I were any better， I’d be twins。 Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds， but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place。

　　在經(jīng)歷了18個小時的手術(shù)和數(shù)周的精心護(hù)理之后，邁克爾出院了，背部裝有金屬桿。大約事故半年之后，我見到了邁克爾。當(dāng)我問他怎么樣時，他回答，“如果我還能再好，我就成雙胞胎了。想看看我的傷疤嗎？”我拒絕看他的傷痕，但的確問了他事故發(fā)生時他是怎么想的。

　　"The first thing that went through my mind was the well being of my soon-to-born daughter，" Michael replied。 "Then， as I lay on the ground， remembered I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die。 I chose to live。" "Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked。 Michael continued， "。。。 the paramedics were great。 They kept telling me I was going to be fine。 But when they wheeled me into the operation room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses， I got really scared。 In their eyes， l read ＇He＇s a dead man。＇ I knew I needed to take action。" "What did you do?" I asked。 "Well， there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me” said Michael。 "She asked me if I was allergic to anything。 ‘Yes，’ I said。 The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply。 I took a deep breath and yelled"， ‘Gravity’” Over their laughter， I told them， ＇I＇m choosing to live。 Operate on me as if I am alive， not dead＇。"

　　“我首先想到的是我那即將出世的女兒的幸福生活，”邁克爾答道。“當(dāng)時我躺在地上，我記起我有兩種選擇：我可以選擇活著，也可以選擇死。我選擇了活。”“你難道不害怕嗎？你失去知覺了嗎？”我問。邁克爾接著說，“……那些護(hù)理人員棒極了。他們不停地告訴我我會好的。但當(dāng)他們把我推進(jìn)手術(shù)室，我看到醫(yī)生和護(hù)士臉上的表情時，我真是嚇壞了。在他們的眼里，我讀出了‘他是個死人。’我知道我應(yīng)該采取行動。”“你采取了什么行動？”我問道。“有一位人高馬大的護(hù)士大聲沖我問問題，”邁克爾說。“她問我是否對什么過敏。‘是的，’我說。醫(yī)生和護(hù)士都停下手中的活兒等我回答。我深吸一口氣大聲說出，‘萬有引力。’他們的笑聲未了，我告訴他們，‘我選擇活著。把我當(dāng)活人而不是死人來做手術(shù)。”’

　　Michael lived， thanks to the skill of his doctors， but also because of his amazing attitude。 I Learned from him that every day we have a choice to live fully。 Attitude is everything。

　　邁克爾活了下來，這要感謝他那些醫(yī)生的高明醫(yī)術(shù)，但也要?dú)w功于他那令人贊嘆的態(tài)度。我從他那里學(xué)到了我們每天都有機(jī)會充實(shí)地活著，關(guān)鍵是態(tài)度