In ancient china, marriages always are arranged by parents. Many young boys may even don’t see those girls who he will marry and finally marry she. It is the common thing happened to almost every one‘s marriage. So everyone think is just be that, and no one opposed it, but there still some youth who fell in love freely, and don’t obey their parents’ wish. But many of them finally failed like Liang shan bo and Zhu yingtai. I think parents should just give advices to their children not arrange marriage for their children. After all, the future life is their children’s not theirs.

　　First of all, marriage is an important thing of everyone’s life, it should be decided by oneself not others even one’s parents. Parents should only give advice to their children.

　　Secondly, one know well what they want than one’s parents. Love is feeling that felt by one. Only one know who is her or his true love. He should be give the rights to choose his right partner not others choose for she or he.

　　Though parents arrange marriage for their child also have some advantages , like they have some experience in marriage and also they know they children very well and therefore know who is the best choice for their children, and what’s more, parents are all love their and will consider every aspects for them. So this kind of marriage may also have some advantage, but if the boys of girls don’t love each other and in the future marriage life, they’ll have much trouble or even worse they finally have to divorce. So I still think parents should not arrange for their children.