1. Don't avoid or ignore negativity.

　　1. 勿要躲避或忽視陰暗面

　　In order to conquer and overcome, it must be acknowledged. This can include people in your life who may be bringing you down, a hostile workplace environment or even a personal stressor that you haven't conquered quite yet. You are in control of your environment and if these negative situations keep making an appearance, it's up to you to handle them.

　　我們得正視生活的陰暗面，這樣才能將其克服與戰勝。負面因素可以包括生活中會使你沮喪的人和不友善的工作環境，甚至是目前仍讓你感到壓力的源頭。你所處的環境為你掌控。倘若這些消極場景一直出現，將其解決的也只能是你。

　　2. Take care of yourself and your needs.

　　2. 關愛自己，重視自我需求。

　　In order to feel compelled to live a powerful and meaningful life, you must love you. Take care of your actions and how you live each day, and this will be reflected in your thoughts and emotional state of mind. Love yourself fully in order to love others fully.

　　為了讓生活有意義并充滿能量，你必須愛自己。關注你的所作所為以及每天的生活方式吧。它們將會反映到你的思想與情感狀態中。為了全心全意地愛他人，你得全身心地愛自己。

　　3. Mend what's broken or get rid of it.

　　3. 之于裂痕，要么修復，要么忘懷。

　　Determining what is worth your time and effort and what is not can be challenging. If situations are toxic and beyond repair, it's time to let go. Are there relationships or friendships that remain damaged but you know are worth the time? Fix them and find peace. Do what you can to find love in situations where it may have be absent in the past.