Act at Once 立即行動(dòng)
My dreams are worthless, my plans are dust, my goals are impossible. All are of no value unless they are followed by action.
Never has there been a map, however carefully executed to detail and scale, which carried its owner over even one inch of ground. Never has there been a parchment of law, however fair, which prevented one crime. Action alone, is the tinder which ignites the map the parchment, my dreams, my plans, my goals, into a living force. Action is the food and drink which will nourish my success.
My procrastination which has held me back was born of fear and now I recognize this secret mined from the depths of all courageous hearts. Now I know that to conquer fear I must always act without hesitation and the flutters in my heart will vanish. Now I know that action reduces the lion of terror to an ant of equanimity.
Henceforth, I will remember the lesson of firefly who gives off its light only when it is on the wing, only when it is in action. I will become a firefly and even in the day my glow will be seen in spite of the sun. Let others be as butterflies who preen theirs yet depend on the charity of a flower for life. I will be as the firefly and my light will brighten the world.
I will not avoid the tasks of today and charge them to tomorrow for I know that tomorrow never comes. Let me act now even through my actions may not bring happiness or success for it is better to act and fail than not to be act and flounder. Happiness, in truth, may not be the fruit plucked by my action yet without action all fruit will die on the vine.
I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words again and again, each hour, each day, until the words become as much as a habit as my breathing and the actions which follow become as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every act necessary for my success. With these words I can condition my mind to meet every challenge which the failure avoids.
I will repeat these words, again and again and again. When I awake I will say them and leap from my cot while the failure sleeps yet another hour.
For now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when then evil become good. I am not evil. Tomorrow is the day when the weak become strong. I am not weak. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure.
When the lion is hungry he eats. When the eagle has thirst he drinks. Lest they act, both will perish. I hunger for success. I thirst for happiness and peace of mind. Lest I act I will perish in a life of failure, misery, and sleepless night.
Success will not wait. If I delay she will become betrothed to anther and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the man.
我的夢(mèng)想毫無(wú)價(jià)值,我的計(jì)劃渺如塵土,我的目標(biāo)無(wú)法達(dá)到。一切的一切都毫無(wú)意義——除非我們付諸行動(dòng)。
一張地圖,不論標(biāo)注多么詳盡,比例多么精確,它也決不能帶著它的主人在地面上移動(dòng)半步。一部法律,不論多么公正,也決不能制止哪怕一宗罪惡。惟有行動(dòng)才能使地圖、法律以及我的夢(mèng)想、計(jì)劃和目標(biāo)具有現(xiàn)實(shí)意義。行動(dòng),就像食物和水一樣,為我們的成功提供滋養(yǎng)。
拖延使我裹足不前,它生于恐懼,現(xiàn)在我從所有勇敢的心靈深處,挖掘出并領(lǐng)悟到這一秘密。我知道,想克服恐懼,必須毫不猶豫,雷厲風(fēng)行,唯有如此,心中的慌亂方能得以平定。現(xiàn)在我知道,行動(dòng)可將猛獅般的恐懼,減緩為螞蟻般的平靜。
從此我要記住螢火蟲的啟示:只有振翅而飛的時(shí)候,只有在行動(dòng)中,才能發(fā)出光芒。我要成為一只螢火蟲,即使艷陽(yáng)高照,也無(wú)法掩蓋我的光芒。讓別人像蝴蝶一樣吧,精心裝扮雙翅,卻靠花朵的施舍生活;我要做螢火蟲,我的光芒照亮整個(gè)世界。
我不會(huì)把今天的事情留給明天,因?yàn)槲抑烂魈煊肋h(yuǎn)不會(huì)來(lái)。讓我現(xiàn)在就行動(dòng)吧!即便我的行動(dòng)不會(huì)帶來(lái)幸福或成功,但是行動(dòng)而失敗總比坐以待斃好。坦白講,我的行動(dòng)也許不會(huì)采摘到幸福的果實(shí),但沒有行動(dòng),就算有果實(shí)也都爛在藤上。
立即行動(dòng),從今往后,我要一遍又一遍,每時(shí)每刻重復(fù)這句話,知道這幾個(gè)字成為習(xí)慣,好比呼吸一般;直到隨后的行動(dòng)成為本能,好比眨眼一樣。有了這句話,我就能調(diào)節(jié)心態(tài),做出成功所需的每一分努力。有了這句話,我就能調(diào)節(jié)心態(tài),迎接失敗者避而遠(yuǎn)之的每一次挑戰(zhàn)。
我將一遍一遍地重復(fù)這句話,清晨醒來(lái)時(shí),失敗者流連于床榻,我卻要默誦這句話,一躍而起。
現(xiàn)在是我的所有。明日是懶漢為自己留的工作日,而我并不懶惰;明日是棄惡從善的日子,而我并不邪惡;明日是弱者變強(qiáng)者的日子,我并不軟弱;明日是失敗者成功的日子,而我并非失敗者。
獅饑而食,鷹渴即飲,除非行動(dòng),否則它們死路一條。我因成功而饑,我為幸福安心而渴,除非行動(dòng),否則我將在失敗、悲慘、夜不成寐的日子中了結(jié)此生。
成功不等人。如果我遲疑,她就會(huì)投入別人的懷抱,永遠(yuǎn)棄我而去。此時(shí)便是良辰,此時(shí)便可為洞房,我便是“成功”的新郎。
做一個(gè)心靈寬廣的人
即使一個(gè)人擁有淵博的知識(shí),良好的修養(yǎng),文明的舉止,優(yōu)雅的談吐,但如果缺少了博大的胸懷以及一顆充滿愛的心靈,那么他一定不會(huì)活得足夠?yàn)t灑漂亮!
生在這個(gè)矛盾世間,無(wú)論是達(dá)官顯貴,還是一介平民,每個(gè)人的一生都必然經(jīng)歷種種的坎坷甚至不幸。這種種的坎坷或者不幸,無(wú)非是一些愛呀、恨呀、情呀、愁呀等等。而人世間的一切愛、恨、情、愁都有一定的時(shí)間限度,時(shí)間能夠清除一切。只要時(shí)間一到,一切都會(huì)消失得無(wú)影無(wú)蹤。當(dāng)然,這時(shí)間有一個(gè)長(zhǎng)短問(wèn)題,時(shí)間的長(zhǎng)短則由個(gè)人的心靈的寬窄度所決定。
心靈寬的人,所有的一切得到釋然的時(shí)間自然就短,心靈窄的人,所有的一切得到釋然的時(shí)間也必然長(zhǎng)。但就在這長(zhǎng)短之間,上演了更多的人生悲喜劇。
人海茫茫,恩怨情仇終能相遇,生活不易,在競(jìng)爭(zhēng)激烈、各種利益關(guān)系交錯(cuò)的社會(huì)中生活的每個(gè)人,都有傷害與被傷害的可能,俗話說(shuō):冤冤相報(bào)何時(shí)了?為什么不能將一切止于自己呢?人性中善惡并存,人難道真的是向惡不從善嗎?
情愛是暖火,溫暖了別人也溫暖了自己;仇恨是烈火,燃燒了別人也燒滅了自己。
阿薩吉奧利曾說(shuō):“如果沒有寬恕之心,生命就會(huì)被無(wú)休止的仇恨和報(bào)復(fù)所支配。”還有一位哲學(xué)家說(shuō):“有一顆體諒他人的心,就仿佛獲得一把鑰匙,它能開啟未來(lái)閉著的大門。”
普濟(jì)寺里有一個(gè)年近百歲的老禪師,許多人有什么解不開的難題,
都會(huì)去向這位老禪師請(qǐng)教。
某天,一個(gè)內(nèi)心充滿仇恨的人來(lái)到普濟(jì)寺,他想向老禪師請(qǐng)教“為什么自己從來(lái)都沒有開心過(guò)”。
此人正要踏進(jìn)老禪師打坐念經(jīng)的禪房,卻發(fā)現(xiàn)自己腳邊有個(gè)像袋子似的東西,雖然塊頭很小,可是看起來(lái)卻是氣鼓鼓的。他感到很奇怪,就抬起腳來(lái),猛地向那東西踩去,可是那東西不但沒有被踩破,反而迅速地膨脹起來(lái)。這個(gè)人一看到這種景象,犟脾氣一下子就上來(lái)了,他隨手抄起放在禪房門口的一根木棒向那個(gè)和他一樣“氣鼓鼓”的東西使勁兒砸去,到最后,那東西已經(jīng)膨脹得將整條通往禪房的路都給堵死了。
這時(shí)候老禪師出來(lái)了,他對(duì)那個(gè)前來(lái)求教的人說(shuō):“快停止吧,此物叫做仇恨袋,里面裝著你的仇恨,你不搭理它,它便如剛才一般大小,但一旦你要侵犯它,它便會(huì)膨脹起來(lái),與你對(duì)抗到底。遠(yuǎn)離它,忘記它,它便傷害不了你了。”
那個(gè)正在發(fā)怒的人聽了老禪師的話,如醍醐灌頂,他對(duì)老禪師說(shuō):“感謝你,我以前每天總是生活在仇恨之中,所以我從來(lái)沒有開心過(guò),現(xiàn)在我終于找到答案了。”
人生最大的智慧是心靈的寬度。一個(gè)人的心有多大,他的舞臺(tái)就會(huì)有多大!他腳下的路就會(huì)有多寬!一個(gè)人一生的成就決不會(huì)超過(guò)他心靈的寬度!在這個(gè)復(fù)雜的社會(huì)上要想獲得智慧,有一個(gè)最基本的品質(zhì),那就是把心盡量的放寬。
一個(gè)人只有帶著寬廣的心靈上路,才能夠走得更遠(yuǎn),從
人生旅程中獲得的也會(huì)更多。即使不幸剛剛降臨在他身上,讓他覺得無(wú)路可走,但只要他抬起腳,哪怕踏上的是一條荊棘遍布的羊腸小道,那天上鳥的歡暢、路邊野花的綻放,也能讓他感到希望。即使是四周一片白雪皚皚,但他也能聞到雪底下春天的氣息。腳下的路自然就會(huì)越走越寬廣。而心胸狹窄的人,所面臨的只能是懸崖。
在生活中我們感到有些人似乎帶有一些陰氣,總令你不寒而栗,總想離他(她)遠(yuǎn)一點(diǎn);有些人你即使想說(shuō)服自己接受,但感覺始終讓你對(duì)他(她)充滿警惕。原因很簡(jiǎn)單,正常人無(wú)法接受心理扭曲心態(tài)失衡的人,他們反感這類人,不屑也根本不愿意與他們交往。
其實(shí),斤斤計(jì)較,睚眥必報(bào)的人有時(shí)也想輕松暢快地與人交流,但其骨子里時(shí)不時(shí)漏出的報(bào)復(fù)濁氣,令人望而生畏。當(dāng)報(bào)復(fù)心駕馭了人的靈魂時(shí),人就無(wú)法自己。從這一刻起,報(bào)復(fù)者就自己為自己判了無(wú)期徒刑。在這種情勢(shì)之下,報(bào)復(fù)者就只有一種選擇就是選擇孤獨(dú),直至悲哀地死去。在眾人的眼中,假如往好一點(diǎn)說(shuō),也就是落得個(gè)“哀其不幸,怒其不爭(zhēng)”而已。
真正的幸福來(lái)自快樂(lè)的心靈。只有心靈寬廣的人,在你的眼角眉梢都洋溢著由衷的'幸福。狹窄的心靈永遠(yuǎn)開不出幸福的花朵。周國(guó)平曾經(jīng)說(shuō)過(guò):“人,來(lái)自于泥土,而最終歸于泥土”。世間萬(wàn)物都最終要落入大地,一切的愛恨、貪欲、喧囂、繁華、浮躁都只是過(guò)眼云煙,生命的本質(zhì)是安靜的也是豐富的,更是偶然的,何必讓他在迷亂的旋渦中倒行逆施
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